I never get Angry
I’m way too afraid of it. Starts with my Dad My father was an angry guy. I was afraid of him. To be more precise I was afraid of …
I need to be a different Person
… and that’s scary as hell. Showing People who you really Are For the record, I’m not a young, blond woman, but I find that image to be a …
The Co-Dependent Threat
… How my fear of anger and co-dependence are intertwined. Fear of Anger thru Co-Dependence My fear of other people’s anger can also be called just plain old anxiety. …
Fear of Violence with Anger
… My anxiety around anger creates worst-case scenarios in my mind. Anxiety around Anger It’s very difficult for me not to be afraid of other people’s anger. I look …
Trying to Kill Anger
… I’ve had psychological fantasies of killing my father. Fantasy of my Ideal World These fantasies differed from actual fantasies where you think of something that you really want …
Carrying my Mother Emotionally
… I know I just wrote about this a few posts back but I’ve got another angle to process it from. Living to make her Happy Growing up my …
Anger towards my Parents
… Seeing them then and now. Reality of the Past I’d like you to look at the picture above carefully and notice what you observe and feel based on …
Serving the Mother
… She’s okay, I’m okay. Pleasing my Mom My mother never got her needs met when she was a child, so like everybody else she went looking to get …
Fear of Losing Approval
… Fear is about threat or of possibly losing something. Afraid People won’t like You The writer and psychologist James Hollis likes to repeat that the world is always …
Restaurant Dreams
… The fear of anger at work. Stress and Work I used to work as a waiter at a few different restaurants when I was in my late teens …